Our Journey of Love: A Recipe of Grace, Compromise, and Sacrifice

We're frequently asked whether the glimpses we offer on social media truly reflect our real lives. It's heartening how people are not only pleasantly surprised but  content upon meeting us, realizing that we're pretty normal. A recent example comes from our time in the studio recording our audio book. The technician, who initially knew little about us, immersed himself in our online presence after the first day. The following day, he remarked on how consistent our in-person demeanor was with our digital presence. It's such a relief when we hear that because more than anything as a couple, we find joy in being ourselves, inspiring others to do the same, both online and offline.

In our upcoming book, A Real Good Life, we get a chance to talk about life's journey and how it has woven us through a tapestry of moments - laughter, growth, and even the challenges that define who we are as a couple. Just as a garden needs our daily touch, our relationship craves the same tender care. Today, we'll dive into the beautiful dance of nurturing love through the daily practices of grace, compromise, and sacrifice - the threads that stitch the fabric of our unbreakable bond. Here are some seeds we've laid out and watered in our marriage -- we hope it blesses you!

1. Embracing Moments of Grace: Marriage often ushers in days when fatigue sets in, and the simple desire is for solitude. In such times, we've come to understand the beauty of allowing ourselves that space. Nights unfold when we each seek our personal moments, whether it's me, engrossed in a book on the couch, or him, engaging in a heartfelt phone call under the starry sky. Within the bustling current of responsibilities, we hold a precious sanctuary for 'me time,' a space where togetherness can quietly thrive. Those tranquil evenings spent solo allow us to address pending tasks or for me, Sazan, to immerse myself in self-care. It's during these instances that we come to appreciate the magic of grace. The grace we extend to one another encompasses patience, a true rarity in today's whirlwind existence. This grace, the silent enchantment of ordinary hours, unfolds into extraordinary connections, nurturing our bond.

2. Nurturing Harmony through Compromise: Life's storms have certainly crossed our path, leaving their impact. Yet, we've become adept at facing them together, hand in hand. Compromise, our trusted tool, serves to soften the rough edges of disagreements. In our relationship, compromising might mean making decisions together that take both perspectives into account. It can be as simple as deciding on which movie to watch or which restaurant to dine or as complex as moving out of state or making a risky business move. It's the gentle dance of sharing burdens and granting the other the breathing room they need. Our relationship thrives on this art of give-and-take, proving that while storms may test us, they will never break the bonds we've forged.

3. Acts of Sacrifice for Lasting Love: Sacrifice, the soul of our love story. It's in those moments when we set aside our own desires for the other's happiness. Even on the days when exhaustion holds us in its grip, we choose to uplift each other. These selfless acts of sacrifice, the embers of our devotion, keep the fire of our connection burning bright.

4. Communication and Teamwork: Our foundation is built on conversations that flow like rivers. Transparent and deep, they water the roots of our love. Our willingness to share, to listen, is the lifeline that keeps us close. The path we walk is clear of silent footsteps and hidden words. Instead, we stand against the silent treatment, favoring words that heal rather than wound. A true loving relationship deserves nothing less than the utmost respect and understanding.

Through our commitment to grace, compromise, and sacrifice, we nurture our love story. Our journey isn't just about us; it's about the common thread that binds all of us in the pursuit of meaningful relationships. As you venture forth, may our relationship serve as a testament to the incredible potential that lies within the art of nurturing. In the tapestry of grace, compromise, and sacrifice, let's all craft a love that's enduring, ever-growing, and uniquely our own. 

Want more advice on the good life? We hope you will preorder our book!

With Love, S+S